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It's Good to talk

 Andy’s Man Club’s motto. ‘It’s good to talk.’ When you feel down or worried for any reason, bottling things up can lead to mental illness and black thoughts. Our society expects men to be strong, silent, and in control and this toxic culture is creating numerous mental health problems and suicides in men, particularly young men. So we have the task of changing attitudes. Man by man and club by club we spread the word and practise open, non-judgemental discussion. Every member who attends AMC and benefits from this approach becomes an ambassador for a new way of doing things. At Pontefract AMC we are gaining new members because friends are telling them how good it is. I have no doubt that most AMC’s are the same. Once members begin to feel more confident, then other activities to keep them buoyant can come into play. AMC has closed websites to keep everyone connected, but other activities such as workshops, or organised walks can all help to provide important social connections and spr

Andy's Man Club Anything to get off your chest?

 AMC Anything to get off your chest. Monday 10 th January 2022 It might save time if I were to say this has been the hardest month of my life. It was so difficult dealing with Isaac’s death and funeral but these were followed by a Christmas Day without him. We tried to enjoy the day in tribute to him since he loved Christmas and his excitement was infectious. If only that was all I had to deal with. The roofer came to fix a leaking roof the day of Isaac’s funeral. Two days before Christmas a guy came to point the wall where the water was leaking into the kitchen and on the same day I had to call out a plumber because an outlet pipe had come loose and all my bathwater ended up on the kitchen floor. A week ago my computer started playing up and I couldn’t get Netflix on the television. Netflix has kept me going each morning through lockdown when my wife is resting in bed. So yesterday I had a guy move my router into the living room from the bedroom. This was a big improvement to my