Borrow my toolbox
For those of us who have had
therapy, we were helped to look for strategies that would improve how we felt.
This ‘toolbox’ was a handy reminder of what to do when struggling or, if used
in a timely way, to keep us on an even keel. In the past, if I had jobs to do
and I had a friend who had tools that would help, then I would borrow them.
Coping with mental health isn’t quite the same because everyone is so
different. Here is my toolbox and if it contains anything that could help you,
then take it. Sharing tools can only help.
1. Trying
to cram too much into each day or week is not sensible. Respect my age and
listen to my body.
2. Find
more fulfilling things to do. Maybe something where I can plan and think. I
enjoy the choir since singing and meeting people are good for me.
3.
At present, my lack of concentration makes it
hard to learn words for my music. So for the moment, a little at a time, with
breaks between, is the best way forward for this and many other activities. I
might find it better to accept that I won’t master all the music by the next
concert. Challenge my perfectionism.
4.
Make clear but provisional plans on a weekly
basis.
5.
If I don’t want to do something, saying no is
the obvious solution. Dwelling on things before speaking out, usually makes
matters worse.
6.
Exercise regularly but sensibly. Work within my
own limits and so avoid injuries. With old injuries, take the pain killers and
keep going.
7.
Use relaxation techniques each day if possible.
8.
Remind me of the positives about myself and
bring my intelligence and determination into play. Try to be mentally strong.
9.
Get out and stay out of bed.
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