In praise of Andy’s Man Club
Yet another new venue as the management team works hard to
keep our face-to-face meetings going. 15 men in a circle, wearing masks and
socially distanced. Behind one mask I see a familiar face and sit down next to
him. This friend came to regular meetings before lockdown but wasn’t keen on
using the Internet meetings. I knew most of the people in the meeting but he
only knew me. ‘I’m pleased you are here,’ he said. ‘It’s a big step coming
through that door again, so recognising a friend does make a difference.’ For
most of us, the hardest step is the first step, coming through that door into a
meeting of unfamiliar faces. The men in that room know what has brought you to
this door and at some point have been in your position. There is very little
you can say that they have not already heard or thought and they are your
future friends. Talking openly to other men is not a cure for mental health
problems but it can prevent you from sinking to the most painful of depths. You will
not be judged and from my own observations, you will begin to feel stronger.
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